We keep having the same fight.
The book about the two of you — written by the two of you, one evening at a time.
Pick a topic tonight and talk it through, one question at a time — then read what your evening wrote about the two of you. And the book is just one part — AreWeMe is a complete tool for the two of you.
The shape is the ground these two already share — a notch is where the talking lives, not a warning.
The book and the app work side by side — keep answering in the app, and the book keeps what you find.
See more readings from the appThe argument about dishes. A friend who keeps cancelling plans.
A fight is never really about the subject — it's about what each of you assumed the other thought, or meant.
Long enough, and it hardens into three words:
It was never a fact — only the words you didn't have. AreWeMe hands them over, and the sentence turns:
You might not agree. You will understand.
What you can do.
Everyone has deep conversations. These are hooks for more of them.
And not only for two. Friends, family, whole groups do this — even someone new whose take on life intrigues you: Lifestyle & Values with them is a surprisingly good evening.
One topic is an evening — or twenty minutes if that's all you have.
Keep going until it's a book. How it works, in full →
Try one question.
You don't have to know what to say. Every question comes with its own way in.
Think you already know them? Guess their answer to the question below before they give it — the nuances will surprise you.
Do you want a partner who pushes you to grow or one who lets you be?
One wants a partner who raises the bar; the other wants a partner who lowers the guard. Both are chasing the same feeling — being enough, together.
Try saying out loud: one way you want to grow this year and one thing you don't want to change.
There are 355 of these, across 17 topics. Every answer connects — each is read against everything you've both answered.
Use them with anyone you're close to. You lead the conversation — AreWeMe keeps the minutes.
- In your closest relationships, do you hold firm lines — or bend them for someone you love?
- Does the 'real you' change depending on the room, or stay fixed?
- Do you believe in 'the one' — or that love is something you build together?
- Do you let money flow, or keep a tight grip on every pound?
These are real questions from the library, shown word for word.
Watch understanding happen.
The questions take a topic one thought at a time. The reading hands it back whole — for the talk after.
A cycle that visits you
Reaching and retreating under pressure
How each of you decides
You decide from different places
A conversation worth having
Finding your way back
A real reading of Mira and Dev — key lines light up as they play.
Real readings run longer. These are lightly cropped and the names changed — engine words kept as written.
You can't pick this book off a shelf. You build it with someone, one evening at a time.
Only the people who built it can really read it.
For the first couples, the whole reading is free.
Every reading, for both of you — no card, no catch.
The readings are free — the book is the part you pledge for. You pay nothing today, confirm in November 2026, and can withdraw any time until then.
- What's included — the book itself, written from both of your answers and delivered chapter by chapter in the app.
- Who it's for — the two of you.
- How long — one topic is an evening. The book grows as many evenings as you give it.
You both go looking for the thing under the answer … two people who both probe can turn an ordinary evening into an inquiry.
Read a whole book first
Maya and Kai's book, cover to cover — eight chapters written from their own answers. Yours would be written from yours.
Read their whole bookOnce your answers exist, you can bring a real problem here — it reads how the two of you actually think before it answers, and what comes back is written for you, not for everyone.
Get to know each other. (Again.)
New to each other or twenty years in, these make a good evening. You end up seeing who the other person is right now — again, or for the first time.
Friday, nothing planned.
Pick a topic and take each question in turn — talk first, answer, look. End on the reading, together — nothing is asked of you after. The understanding you build on an easy evening is what makes the hard ones easier.
See how an evening works →The same conversation keeps coming back.
Step back from the problem and regroup around the people: reread that topic's reading, or bring the problem itself and get a reading written for exactly that. What gets lost in assumptions and expectations is all still there, in your own words.
Getting married, moving cities, thinking about a kid.
Big decisions are hard to unravel alone, and harder to think through together. Align on the life around the decision first, then look again — the way through is usually easier to see.
A couple you love, a date worth marking.
Give the book — the evenings are the gift's real content. Even the giver can't read it the way they will.
Fair questions, straight answers.
They don't have to do anything tonight — start alone, or sit together and talk it through, choosing as you go. They join with a link whenever they're ready. A partial book is a real book.
It's just hooks for conversations you'd enjoy anyway — you can talk a question through and never even answer it. Friend groups have spent whole weekends on these. It only keeps what you chose to put in.
No. It shows what you each said, side by side — every choice has its upside and its watch-out, and you see both. It never says whether you should be together.
The two of you, and no one else — no human at AreWeMe reads them. The engine turns them into your readings; sharing those is your choice. The conversation itself stays in the room.
One topic can be the whole point — do one and stop. The chapters you've written are yours.
Nothing today — the readings are free for the first couples. The book's price is on its own page: you pledge, confirm in November 2026, and can withdraw any time until then.
No streaks. No scores. No verdicts.
It takes what you each said, shows you the pattern and the why — what you do with it stays yours.
You do it yourselves. That's the point.
Trust, plainly.
Never takes sides
Both of you heard, equally.
Built seriously
Three years of research, built first for the founder's own relationship — two people who didn't know each other, now a happily married couple. Built at Inria Startup Studio, supported by Inria, the French national institute for digital research.
Private by design
Tested and approved by Inria in France.
AreWeMe is an AI-assisted product — the reasoning is computed algorithmically, and the wording is drafted by a language model.
"We're just different" was never a fact. It was the words you didn't have.
Your answers are special-category personal data (GDPR Article 9) — used only to write your readings, with your explicit consent. Product analytics are EU-hosted.